In his blog about hookup culture, Marc Perry refutes the notion that there is a "new or pervasive ‘hookup culture’ among contemporary college students." He makes the point that although sexual behavior itself is not changing, the language surrounding it is much more prevalent in conversations and that sexual partners are more likely to be someone less well know than in the past. That being said, how does that compare to what I have experienced personally on the college campus?
Well, to start out with, I do notice the prevalence of language regarding "hooking up." I hear it when I'm walking through the hallways, sitting in a classroom, or eating lunch. Moreover, the context is not subtle or private. There is definitely an excess of conversation regarding the subject of hooking up.
Occasionally, I will also witness the start of an obviously anonymous hookup, usually late on a weekend night. Although the people involved might not normally view this behavior as appropriate, and it is obviously not well thought out (given the usual temporarily incapacitated mental state of the parties involved), it must happen with a relatively high frequency for me to notice it. However, this is not an accurate measure of its frequency - it is small sample, given the little time I spend around groups of people on the weekend. Either way, hooking up is much less frequent than the talk about it. But, it does show that people will occasionally hook up with people that they barely know.
Even with my limited experiences, I have been able to pick up these trends on the two main types of observations that Marc Perry uses. These two types of observation have lead me to believe that Perry is right about the frequency of hooking up not changing as much as the frequency of conversation and blatancy regarding hooking up.
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Mashburn, Cody: Sexual Health
Studies and statistics show that
“hook ups” in college remain the same throughout the years with very little
fluctuation. This seems plausible and a possible examination of the data
supporting an intuitive, yet debatable conclusion that collegiate “hook ups”
have remained the same for decades.
Studies
of the “Hook Up Culture” include face to face interviews about how many hook
ups have occurred between yourself and another person. It is simply scientific
fact that the chemical reactions within our bodies to lust have been, and
always will be, the same no matter the generation of college students. Most
high school students coming from a public school have heard that college is one
big party and that it is all about the booze and women. The continuation of a
relatively high flat-lined trend among hook ups in college not only has to do
with the biological side of the human brain, but the social norm per se. I have
a girlfriend back home and would never do anything to hurt her. I am not alone
in that scenario. But for others, their mindset about college is all about
parties, alcohol, and sex. They are the ones who are most likely to “hook up”
in today and in the past. So, I do believe that the percentage of hook ups has
not changed drastically since 1988, the beginning of this research. Most of my
reasoning is not what I have heard, but what I have seen. I have seen my
closest friends go to college and return home after a couple of weeks because
they have fell victim to yet another statistic in which the research has
provided. They kept making bad grades but kept partying and skipping class
thinking that that is what people are SUPPOSED to do in college.
I
am not surprised when the research stated that hook ups have remained the same over
the past couple of decades. The importance of college will always be undermined in the minds of students looking for a four-year social event.
Youngblood, Julia: Sexual Health
I believe that not
much has changed in the area of “hook-ups” from the last generation to this
one. Since I have started school this semester, I have only heard of two
drunken make-outs between people that I know. However, as a college kid I would
not refer to this as a “hook-up” as might the professors in the reading. From
movies I have seen about college, I figured that there would be more “hook-ups”
than there actually are, because those movies led me to believe that the
culture actually had changes and is worse now than it was a decade ago.
One of the
comments on this article is that college kids experiment, which is a very true
statement. I have always heard that college years are the “wild” years, and the
only “hook-ups” that I have heard about are after something “wild” has
happened.
I do believe that
what has changed about this culture are the customs. A decade or two ago, it
was crazy to talk about some topics in public. Sexual topics were
most certainly talked about but only behind closed doors and typically among the
same gender. Today, it is not uncommon for me to walk into the lobby and sit
down with everyone to talk and then hear someone crack a dirty joke during the
conversation. Once this has happened, the conversation usually spirals out of
control into a talk about anything and everything relating to sex.
No longer are topics or jokes about “hook-ups”
are no longer discussed behind closed doors, these topics are open conversation
in the lobby. Also, I have always heard that boys are the ones who tend to do
this most often; on this campus however it is very even. Meaning girls crack just as many,
if not more dirty jokes than boys.
In what I have
seen from my fellow classmates, the action is has not changed nearly as much as
people think it has, but what has changed is how much teenagers talk about the
action.
Leach, Cameron: Sexual Health
The
media seems to be portraying our generation as one that is much more likely to
have casual “hookups” rather than be in committed relationships. This is true
to some extent, but the media is over exaggerating. The amount of sex that our
generation is having is almost exactly the same as our parents’ generation. We
are not much different in our amount of sexual partners or in our views on sex.
Studies even show that the percentages of college students who have had more
than one sexual partner have dropped since previous generations.
What has changed is the fact that our
generation is less likely to get into a committed relationship with someone as
quickly as before. Many members of our generation seem to find someone they
want to be with for the rest of their lives by having sex with them before they
decide whether they want to commit to anything or not. The age that members of
our generation get married has also changed. The average age that people marry
at has risen higher and higher each generation. Our grandparents’ or great
grandparents’ average age of marriage was 12 to 14, while we have risen that
age to 27-30 years old. Our generation isn’t just “hooking up” just to do it;
this is our generation’s way of testing out a person to see if they will be an
appropriate partner. It is a way of “throwing themselves out there.” Every
relationship has to begin with some type of test to see whether it will stand
up to the test of time anyway. Our generation has just taken that test a step
farther. Years ago the test would begin with asking a girl on a date, which
then over the years evolved into asking someone if they wanted to kiss you or
if you could kiss them, and now it has evolved into asking someone if they want
to “hookup.” This is simply evolution of the generations.
Different
things become the “norm” over time, and today finding a partner begins with a
“hookup”. Romance however, is not dead on the college campus; not everyone in
our generation mindlessly has sex with someone just because they feel like it. It
is simply a new way of finding a partner than earlier years rather than a whole
new era of no strings attached sex.
Mukweyi, Diana: Sexual Health
I have little interaction with the campus “Hookup Culture”. I
don’t participate in such a lifestyle, and I’m don't see it in the lives of my
friends. I also don't believe that such a culture is on the rise for this
generation compared to those of the past.
Modern day youth have more freedom to do as they please due to a more
liberal society. If Mr. Monto feels that
there isn’t a new version of the “Hookup Culture” on college campuses, then I’m
willing to agree with him because I feel that it’s most likely has the same
meaning today as it did a few decades ago. I’m not a primary witness to the
“hookup culture” therefore, should there be a change to it, I’m not sure I’d
try to notice it.
I find it to be
unfortunate that Mr. Monto feels “the hookup discussion conveys a sense of
moral panic;” I believe that the morals of young adults are shaped by the
societies in which they are raised. Therefore, how they live their lives on
campus is to some degree a reflection of what they see in the world around
them. The “hookup culture” should be studied in the world outside the
campus and then compared to the campus life. There might be some similarities
in how different generations form relationships based on the conduct of the
societies they live in.
I don’t agree with
Mr. Monto’s statement that “fewer students today are dating.” Personally, I
feel like too many students are dating. I also hear of more people who are
college-aged getting married. I think I’d say that most young people don’t want
to stay in long relationships.
Honors College Report
Activities and News:
- Eight Honors College students recently attended the National Collegiate Honors Council in New Orleans. Seven students were on the program and one was a nominee for national Honors College student of the year.
- Also at the NCHC meeting was a joint presentation by SAU, SAU Tech, and College of the Ouchitas about their new Honors 2 + 2 programs. SAU Tech has already enrolled 10 students and COTO 8. The Honors College hopes to sign South Arkansas Community College and Cossatot Community College soon. Word on the street is that Henderson is attempting to piggyback on our idea by launching a similar program.
- Dr. Kardas is now co-chair of the NCHC Research Committee
- Lilli Hollensworth interviewed for medical school at UAMS last Saturday.
- Two honors students, Cheyenne Meyer and Joel Pogue, will graduate in three years in May.
- Several honors students, Christopher Harris, Pui (Joy) Tan, Samson King, and Subir Shakya, are applying to graduate school or for funding. Schools include: The London School of Economics, the National Science Foundation, Colorado State University, and St. Louis University.
- The Honors Seminar class has recently hosted Trey Berry, David Rankin, Donna Allen, and Paul McLendon.
- Rachel Wetherington is working on a project titled: SAU as Text. It will provide all first year students with a campus walkabout designed to give them experiential learning about SAU history and traditions.
- The NEW iPads arrived (at least most of them did) last week. Because Apple released a new model in October the Honors College decided to delay its annual purchase in order to provide the latest models.
Saturday, November 16, 2013
Riddle, Morgan: Sexual Heath
Labeling
the young, college culture as the “hooking-up” culture is, in my opinion a
little down grading. College students have been engaging in no strings attached
dating for decades. People just were not as open about it as they are now.
There seems to be little to no shame with the concept of hooking up with
someone today, as opposed to 20 or 30 years ago. Although, that does not mean
that it was nonexistent.
College-age students seem to be more interested in hooking
up than committing to a full time relationship. I believe that is because
students do not want to miss out on the “College Experience.” Students are so
involved in clubs, sports, sororities, fraternities, and studies that they may
feel they will not be able to live up to the time obligations of a serious relationship.
There are only so many hours in a day, why commit to long hours maintaining a relationship
when a couple of hours a week will lead to sexual satisfaction?
I personally have no firsthand
experience. The people close to me and myself all have steady, honest
relationships. Although, I am not blind to the fact that the hook-up culture is
all around me. I do not believe that the idea of hooking up for conveniences
first popped up with the coming of my generation, along with the new ideals of
homosexuality, drug use, and premarital sex. It’s not that such issues never
existed until now; they were just never talked about. These types of issues
were swept under the rug and were ignored, but we must give credit where credit
is due, and not all of it can fall on our generation.
Kendrick, Samuel: Sexual Heath
In the article “Study Casts Skeptical Light on Campus ‘Hookup Culture,” a credible, 7-page article in the New York Times is met with large-font generalizations as rebuttals. The Chronicle of Higher Education’s article employs studies by a sociology professor to paint a picture of normality and tradition for hook-up culture on university campuses and to avoid admitting that widespread acceptance of said hook-ups has blossomed, although the number of no-strings-attached intercourse has not really increased since 1988. Regardless of my disagreements of the focus of the study, the article underscores the validity of the New York Times article.
At SAU, both articles hold true. Both alumni and current students brag about the explosion in their sexual activity (on-campus hook-ups) during the higher education experience. Does that mean their parents did the same? According to the study, they did. Why would the “many generations” have “the sense that sexual behavior is changing or becoming more liberal” even if they had the same amount of hook-ups? Either they want to pretend they did not, or they are now more exposed to the reality of hook-ups through the open conversations about hook-ups their children are having. I believe the latter hits the mark.
There is no shame about sex, whether in committed relationship or otherwise, in my generation. To me, lack of shame about one’s own sexual matters shows a lack of self-respect, yet general sexual discussions are the main topics of college conversations are nearly everywhere even in places such as classes or sports events; apparently, sex interests my age group much more.
As someone who deals with hearing about hook-ups daily I’ve given my take on an article about college hook-ups. Remember, only the student populations (including who take the surveys) truly know the rate of hook-ups, regardless of the number of studies.
At SAU, both articles hold true. Both alumni and current students brag about the explosion in their sexual activity (on-campus hook-ups) during the higher education experience. Does that mean their parents did the same? According to the study, they did. Why would the “many generations” have “the sense that sexual behavior is changing or becoming more liberal” even if they had the same amount of hook-ups? Either they want to pretend they did not, or they are now more exposed to the reality of hook-ups through the open conversations about hook-ups their children are having. I believe the latter hits the mark.
There is no shame about sex, whether in committed relationship or otherwise, in my generation. To me, lack of shame about one’s own sexual matters shows a lack of self-respect, yet general sexual discussions are the main topics of college conversations are nearly everywhere even in places such as classes or sports events; apparently, sex interests my age group much more.
As someone who deals with hearing about hook-ups daily I’ve given my take on an article about college hook-ups. Remember, only the student populations (including who take the surveys) truly know the rate of hook-ups, regardless of the number of studies.
Sawyer, Andrew: Sexual Health
An article in The Chronicle of Higher Education summarizes the findings of
University of Portland Sociology professor Martin A. Monto. He
researched the differences in the sexual activities of college students from
1988 to 1996 from that of college students from 2002 to 2010.
Mr. Monto found that the national survey data he compared do
not support the idea that the sexual behavior of college students is
significantly different than in years past. Thus, Mr. Monto contends that there
is no evidence of a ‘hook up culture.’
The meaning of ‘hook up’ is uncertain. Some consider making
out ‘hooking up’ but to others ‘hooking up’ involves sex.
According to Mr. Monto’s research, the youth of today are
not having sex more frequently or with a larger variety of partners. In fact,
his findings show that today’s youth are less likely to have sex weekly.
Mr. Monto found some differences
between the two generations of students. One difference is today’s students are
more likely to have sex with a friend or a casual acquaintance. Another
difference is today’s students are less likely to date, marry, or have a
regular sexual partner.
Kathleen A. Bogle was not surprised
Mr. Monto’s conclusions. She contended that “The term hooking up has been
widely used on college campuses since the mid-1980s.” Thus, she said the
similarities between the two groups are not shocking.
The article concludes by simply stating
the data. Fifty nine percent of college students have sex at least once a week, and over
the span of a year 32 percent have had sex with multiple partners.
Based on what I have observed, I
assume that college students have the choice whether or not to have sex. Since
I have chosen abstinence, I am personally ignorant of hook up culture.
Thompson, Bryan: Sexual Heath
Whenever the word college is used,
many things come to people’s minds. College is a place to get an education, get
away from one’s parents, meet new friends, and join the big party scene. But
that’s not all, it is where hookups happen.
A
study by Kathleen A. Bogle who wrote Hooking Up: Sex, Dating, and Relationships on Campus, says that the term
hooking up has been around since the 1980s. This shouldn’t be a surprise
because many students are so busy with college and joining clubs, they simply
don’t have the time to become involved in serious relationships. Students are
too worried about insuring their future through their education.
Another
idea analyzed by Dr. Monto was whether students were hooking up more now than
ever before. Interestingly, his study showed that hooking up hasn’t really
changed. Students still hook up as much then as they do now, but how they hook
up has changed. Students today tend to hook up with a friend or someone they
had a casual date with. Not only are
students hooking up with just one person. The study showed that 39 percent of
students have sex with more than one partner in a year and 59 percent were
having sex weekly or more often.
I have not had my own personal experience hooking up , but I do know someone from college that has hooked up with more than one partner since attending SAU. That person is not into serious relationships and according to the article Sex on Campus: She Can Play That Game, Too, this is the type of person an academically dedicated female student tries to hook up with. Reason being that a female student can still have a sex life and focus on her studies; which are hard to achieve while having a boyfriend.
Sutherland, Brittany: Sexual Health
Sexual
culture is a highly touchy subject, especially among adolescents whose families
would rather not believe their children are engaging in such behavior. More
often than not, nowadays, people have had past sexual experiences prior to
marriage. But, I don’t believe that today’s college students are having more sex
than before, especially when it comes to “hook-up” type encounters.
From
my point of view, adolescents are not having sex more often than previous
generations. To me, sex should be between couples that truly love each other. There
are still many that believe that sex should only be between a married man and
woman, but I wouldn’t go so far. My beliefs and everyone else’s, of course,
aren’t the same. Some are much more
lenient and others far more strict.
There
are still students who sleep around often, and perhaps as time has gone on sexual
culture has changed and such behavior is less frowned upon in our generation. In
my life however, sexual relationships are still treated as taboo. Not all of my
friends share these ideas though, one of my very best friends had the mentality
of partying and sleeping around and she had a child from one of her “hook-ups”.
The
phrase “dating is dead” is very untrue around Magnolia. In our southern locale,
everyone I know has dated at least once before entering college, though dating has
changed. Past generations used dating to find a partner to spend life with, now
it is just another way to get with someone sexually.
With
more education available today about pregnancy and STDs students, from my
perspective, have been having less casual sex. While college students have
always been wildly experimental, sleeping around constantly is becoming less a
part of their experimentation.
Snyder, Emily: Sexual Heath
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“Study
Casts Skeptical Light on Campus 'Hookup Culture'” from the Chronicle of Higher Education, is about
a study of college students relationships completed by Martin A. Monto. He is
interested in whether college students today are having more sexual relations
than college students in the past. He found that students today have more
partners and are less likely to get married, but the number of students
involved in sexual activities has not really increased that much throughout the
years.
I grew up in Arkansas, one of the states with an extremely high teen
pregnancy rate, so I have witnessed friends having to make life-altering
decisions because they became sexually active at a young age. Abortions are
most commonly performed on young girls between the ages of 15-19 according to
Stephanie Pappas, a writer for Live
Science. Most girls are in high school during that period, so Monto should
have studied ‘hookup life’ in high school instead of college. Then, he might
have found an increase in sexual involvement.
In college, people are just more
open about their sexual experiences than in high school. Consequently, there is
more chatter about sex on a college campus than on a high school campus.
Monto’s study also found that fewer college kids are getting married. More
people have confessed to being gay because it is socially accepted more than it
used to be; gay marriage is still illegal in most states. Divorce rates have
also skyrocketed causing people to be scared of marriage because they think it
will never work. From my experiences, the ‘hookup culture’ has changed but in
high school not college, and the marriage rates of sexually involved people has
decreased as Monto’s study stated.
Reed, Michael: Sexual Health
College is
widely regarded as a social experiment that tests a student's physical, mental,
and moral resoluteness. The "hookup scene" is one such test on the
morality of each student. From my observations heterosexual relationships are
no longer between a man and woman, but instead between a boy and a girl who
lack the maturity and skill to make good decisions.
Sex is the
name of the game. "Hookup" implies an act of sexuality between two
people, and college has become "hookup" heaven. Coming into college
presents new options. It presents freedom. It presents liberation to students,
some of whom had long been watched over by authoritarian parents. Once in college,
they may be quickly swayed by their new freedom. College includes a sense of
moral detachment, in some ways, for many
students. No longer do these students feel the always wary eye of God as their
grandmother might preach. These students are allowed to walk in and out doors
with little to no questioning. The fact of the matter is no one cares what
these students do.
Marc Parry's
article "Study Casts Skeptical Light on Campus 'Hookup Culture'"
attempts to disprove the presence of a "hookup scene." Parry compares
two sets of data about young students. One set encompasses the late 1980s to
the late 1990s, while the other includes today's students going back to 2002.
Parry asserts that data show that today's students are having no more sex than
those students from 30 years ago. However, I believe a "hookup
culture" was rampant in the 1980s as well. If sexual liberation is
attributed to the flower power age of the 1970s, Parry's theory that there
isn't a "hookup culture" is null and void. Parry was simply comparing
one "hookup culture" to another. These data should be compared to the
1950s, when society was much more sexually conservative.
Corbitt, Joshua: Sexual Health
College is the first true freedom that many young adults
experience. I believe that is why there
is such a thing as “campus hookup culture.”
In that freedom we experience, there are many decisions to make and even
more mistakes to be made.
In the article, “Study Casts Skeptical Light on Campus
Hookup Culture”, it states that college students of today are not having any
more “hookup” sex than the students of the late eighties and early
nineties. Yet, the percentage of
students under the age of 21 who consistently consume alcohol has skyrocketed. Alcohol is not the only reason
that people “hookup,” but drinking leads to a looser decision making
process. It is very hard to believe that
alcohol has not contributed to an increase in “hookups.”
I believe that a survey’s outcome depends entirely upon
the type of people interviewed. Maybe,
in the late eighties the researchers interviewed the “bad kids,” and then
interviewed today’s “good kids.” I feel
this way since today’s standards are based on what feels right and what is
convenient for a person. This duty to
self is expressed in America largely by divorce. Little thought toward the family remains in this
world that is filled with selfishness. That
is what this world has become, and it’s not socially acceptable to believe
differently.
Being abstinent, I have no experience in “campus hookup
culture,” I only have stories from peers and articles such as “Study Casts
Skeptical Light on Campus Hookup Culture,” to influence my thoughts on the
subject. I will say, though, that I do
not agree with the idea that the amount of casual sex being had today has not
gone up with more generations. I believe
the current students engage more frequently in casual sex because of today’s
loose morals that guide young adults’ lives.
Brakebill, Riley: Sexual Heath
For
some college students, “hooking up” with other students is a major highlight of
their college careers. However, there are still students like myself who choose
to put their pent-up energy into their studies. I believe that although there
may be more talk about hooking up than there once was, it doesn’t necessarily
mean that more college students are having more casual sex with various
partners.
As far as my personal college experience goes,
hooking up doesn’t really affect me. Most of my friends aren’t concerned with
sleeping around and neither am I. Our time is spent studying and being
involved in various activities on campus. However, I have one friend who seems
to have a different sexual partner every week and has no moral dilemmas about
his decisions. Personally, I’m not interested in that kind of activity on
campus, but to each his own.
I strongly disagree that most young people are
having sex more often and with more partners. According to the article,
“today’s young people are not having sex more often or with more partners.” I
don’t think that younger generations are involved in sexual activities any more
or less than they were decades ago when the first of these two hookup studies
were conducted.
The
term “hooking up” doesn’t necessarily mean more sex among contemporary
students. According to the article, the students “…did not report having sex
with more people over the past year than earlier students did. And they were
substantially less likely to have sex once or more a week.”
My
personal experiences of “hooking up” on campus aren’t much to base the whole
college experience on because I’m too busy to think about jumping into bed with
someone. Even if I had the time to dedicate to this activity, I would value
myself and my partner too much to consider having casual sex.
Burton, Kenneth: Sexual Health
When I was a child, I was home schooled and sheltered. The first time I saw a woman that wasn't my sister or mother was at college. A woman recently asked me if I wanted to hookup. I informed her I had some jumper cables in my car if she wanted me to jump-start hers. That is my only experience with 'hookup culture' as you call it, and thankfully it seems to be in decline.
I believe this decline might be because hooking up has lost its shock value. The first wave of hookup culture in the 1960s was a furious backlash against the social norms of the time. However, current students' parents have had their own hookups too; or at least know friends who have had hookups. So since hookup culture isn't as traumatic to the hookupee's parents, it loses a lot of the appeal.
The article also states that people are dating less. I can see that. Most of my friends and acquaintances aren't dating anybody. In addition, I know two people who have never been on a date. I have yet to meet anyone who says that dating is inferior to hooking up, and I've never gotten the impression otherwise. But it could be that I just don't know people who are actually in a relationship.
The biggest point the article didn't mention is porn. With the advent of Internet porn, anyone can find sexual gratification online. In the 1980s, porn was limited to theaters, most of which were completely disgusting places. But now porn is available for massive consumption online. Frankly, a hormone-riddled student could go out and find someone to hook up with, but that would involve getting up from the computer from where they could receive similar satisfaction within seconds.
I believe this decline might be because hooking up has lost its shock value. The first wave of hookup culture in the 1960s was a furious backlash against the social norms of the time. However, current students' parents have had their own hookups too; or at least know friends who have had hookups. So since hookup culture isn't as traumatic to the hookupee's parents, it loses a lot of the appeal.
The article also states that people are dating less. I can see that. Most of my friends and acquaintances aren't dating anybody. In addition, I know two people who have never been on a date. I have yet to meet anyone who says that dating is inferior to hooking up, and I've never gotten the impression otherwise. But it could be that I just don't know people who are actually in a relationship.
The biggest point the article didn't mention is porn. With the advent of Internet porn, anyone can find sexual gratification online. In the 1980s, porn was limited to theaters, most of which were completely disgusting places. But now porn is available for massive consumption online. Frankly, a hormone-riddled student could go out and find someone to hook up with, but that would involve getting up from the computer from where they could receive similar satisfaction within seconds.
Ford, Jessica: Sexual Health
The
term ‘hooking-up’ is thought to be a modern term; however, this saying has been
used since the 1980s. Many experts believe that the recent generation is more
likely to have no-strings attached sex. Studies show that this is not
necessarily true. If not, then why do so many believe it?
Personally,
I do not think that the recent generations are more likely to have casual sex.
I believe that each generation has had their own group of young college kids
that participated in the ‘hookup’ culture. In modern days, the world has become
less modest and more liberal. Therefore, people believe that since the world is
changing, so are the habits of teenagers. Marijuana use, gay marriage, and many
other controversial topics are becoming more openly discussed and practiced. I
believe this is true also for sex. Topics such as these are not necessarily more
common in today but they are showing up in more conversations. This is why people
believe that young adults now-a-days are hooking up more often. Sex is a more
open subject; it is discussed way more. There are sexual references everywhere.
Whether on television, radio, or in advertisements, someone always seems to
bring up sex.
Mr. Monto’s studies show that
there are changes in the behavior of college students, but it is not this big
change that some people believe to be happening. This is something that has
always been around. Yes, college students are known to be more promiscuous, and
in some cases that is true. The combination of freedom, new people, and often
alcohol can hugely affect a young adult’s morals and actions. Just because the
world is becoming more liberal does not mean that some young adults don’t still
cherish their old-fashioned morals.
Rumors
and gossip should not be used to base the judgment of a generation. Students
may be more comfortable to talk about hooking up with someone, but everyone
knows that talk is cheap.
Anderson, Kiley: Sexual Heath
“Here are the data: Fifty-nine percent say they have sex
weekly or more often, and 32 percent say they’ve had sex with more than one
person over the past year” That leaves 9 percent left that either do not have
sex, or have had the same sexual partner for more than a year. I am a part of
that 9 percent. However shocking it may be, there are still young people out
there who choose abstinence, me being one of them. That being said, I have no
personal experiences with the ‘Hookup Culture’ simply because I am not a part
of it. Therefore, I will write about another person’s personal experience.
I had a friend in high school that was very smart and
had a lot going for her. She was paid to be in the Razorback Marching Band in
the fall of 2013 at the University of Arkansas. However, all of that changed
the night of her senior prom.
Prom, as most people know, is the night many students
choose to hookup. She hooked up with a guy the weekend of prom. Later, the day
after graduation, she was pregnant. Because she lived in a small town, the news
spread like wildfire.
A couple months later, she had a miscarriage and lost her
baby. It was very sad and we all mourned for her. However, this pregnancy
taught her a lesson. Yes, the hook up culture is virtually the same as it was
decades ago. But, students can still be safe while living in this “hookup
culture.” Otherwise, outcome could be
responsibility for new life.
Connelley, Cole: Sexual Heath
The discussion of college campus “hookup culture” is a
topic that has been and will be talked about for many generations. A moral
panic has struck many because they believe that young people are having more
sex with partners with whom they have no relationship than their predecessors
did. Are there major changes in sexual behavior to support this new “hookup
culture” among college students? That is an excellent question that must be
discussed.
To begin, Martin Monto, a professor of sociology at the
University of Portland, found zero evidence of substantial changes. He
conducted a national survey of college students who attended at least one year
of college over two different time frames. The first period was from 1988 to
1996, and second period was from 2002 to 2010. He found that students in the
more recent group are not having sex with more partners or having it more often,
and they are less likely to have sex once or more a week. In other words,
little has changed. For example, my parents told me stories of how young people
behaved during their own high school and college days; it did not differ much
from today’s patterns. Young people have and are still having sex outside of
marriage. Little has changed; the sexual behavior of young people from the past
to recent times is very similar to each other.
There are some minor changes in the “hookup culture,”
however. Fewer students today are dating. They are more comfortable with
no-strings-attached relationships. The language and narrative around the term
“hooking up” has changed too. The term can now refer to making out instead of
having sex. I can easily relate to this because nearly every person in modern
society uses the term “hooking up” to refer to any sexual behavior with the
opposite sex. “Hooking up” no longer refers to only sex; it can just as easily
refer to kissing or simply hanging out. Another change is that more people who
have had sex over the past year have admitted this being with a friend or
during a casual date. Fewer people are marrying or staying in a committed
relationship, and that can be very morally wrong in the eyes of many. I have
many friends who will have sex with each other just to have a few minutes of
enjoyment. They want something to entertain them, and it does not matter
whether it be sex or not. This is very morally wrong in my eyes.
The term “hooking up” has not changed over many years.
The same term was used in the past by young college students and is still used
among contemporary college students today. The changes consist in what the
term refers to and the increasing number of no-strings-attached sex among young
people. “Hooking up” will always be a major topic that many people will have
issues dealing with.
Mason, Maya: Sexual Heath
The article
“Study Casts Skeptical Light on Campus ‘Hookup Culture’” states students are
not having less sex or “hooking up” less, instead it is merely the language
this generation uses has changed. Students use the term “hook up” to mean many
different things. Whether a student means sex, making-out, or even foreplay all depends on how that person understood the word, and how others perceive
it.
Though the
language is changing, I believe the privacy of students’ lives is changing
more. Today, students are much more open about their sex lives than in years
past. The study shows that our generation is having less sex; however, students
use so many different words and phrases to describe their sex lives that one
study cannot keep up with what each term actually means to each individual.
Since I
wasn’t alive in the 1980s, I do not know firsthand what the student culture was
like then, but I have heard many stories from different mentors in my life. I
have been told from many perspectives that people in the 1980s did in fact,
have sex before marriage but it was usually with the same person over a long
period of time. When looking at today’s student culture, we assume they have
many different partners throughout their lifetime. The reality is, language has
changed so much, and we can’t tell what is fact or fiction.
I conclude that students in my generation do
“hookup” more often than the generations before us because they do not want to
get attached to one person. The students I come in contact with want to have
the pleasure from sex without the obligations of being in a relationship.
Grogan, Hailey: Sexual Heath
Past generations tend to look down on newer ones as they arise through high school and into college. These people tend to gossip about college students, their doings, and how utterly irresponsible they have become upon entering adulthood. In reality, the two generations have experienced about the same levels of sexual experimentation. The perception of differences may stem from the fact that previous generations, much like today, believed what they did then was not bad. Similarly, the current generation may share the same opinion.
The article titled, “Study Casts Skeptical Light on Campus ‘Hookup Culture’” covers a controversial topic. The main question this article addresses is: “Have the generations became more sinful in their nature or are the past generations just looking to blame someone for the corrupt world?” Personally, the generations have not changed much as far as what goes on behind closed doors. Unplanned pregnancies occur as often now just as they did years ago. In the past however, women who became pregnant were more likely to be sent to girls’ reformatories and were not allowed to return until after their babies were born or even after an abortion. Today, it is more obvious that teenagers are having premarital sex because women are no longer isolated.
The “hook-up culture” has changed in the ways of dating. College students do not seem to actually “date”, people meet at parties and usually “hook up” rather than talking and getting to know one another.
In my past experience, I have a close friend who is sexually active with no intention of pursuing relationship or marriage. I also have friends who are abstinent. This leads me to believe there is no true trend of a “hook-up culture.” Instead, I believe the way one person expresses themselves through relationships varies upon how they are influenced by societies present culture and the values instilled by faith.
The article titled, “Study Casts Skeptical Light on Campus ‘Hookup Culture’” covers a controversial topic. The main question this article addresses is: “Have the generations became more sinful in their nature or are the past generations just looking to blame someone for the corrupt world?” Personally, the generations have not changed much as far as what goes on behind closed doors. Unplanned pregnancies occur as often now just as they did years ago. In the past however, women who became pregnant were more likely to be sent to girls’ reformatories and were not allowed to return until after their babies were born or even after an abortion. Today, it is more obvious that teenagers are having premarital sex because women are no longer isolated.
The “hook-up culture” has changed in the ways of dating. College students do not seem to actually “date”, people meet at parties and usually “hook up” rather than talking and getting to know one another.
In my past experience, I have a close friend who is sexually active with no intention of pursuing relationship or marriage. I also have friends who are abstinent. This leads me to believe there is no true trend of a “hook-up culture.” Instead, I believe the way one person expresses themselves through relationships varies upon how they are influenced by societies present culture and the values instilled by faith.
Atchison, Joseph: Sexual Health
Young
adults have always engaged in pre-marital sex, but it seems as though society
is beginning to take it less seriously. Years ago it was a taboo subject that
people did secretly. Today, sex is an act that comes along with a “no big deal”
attitude. It is that new “so what, everyone does it” attitude that has led
people to believe that young adults are having more no-strings-attached sex
than their predecessors did. I have witnessed this new attitude across the
campus of Southern Arkansas University.
Sex is a biological urge
and the temptation to submit to it is strong. Students are engaging in sexual activities,
likely in the same as always. Nowadays, however, the new attitude has made it
much less of a taboo and more of a social norm. Because of this, it is less
likely today that the people “hooking up” (which is an ambiguous term that can
refer to sex, but also to simply making out) are partners. Instead, more students are hooking up with
people they are not dating. After only two months at SAU I have heard of more
cases of people “hooking up” with someone other than a dating partnet than I
did my whole senior year of high school. Having been involved in this “hooking
up” culture, although not having sex, it becomes clear to me as to why it is
becoming less of a taboo. Our attitudes about the subject, in general are
becoming more and more accepting of it.
Dupree, Tynasha: Sexual Heath
“Hooking
up” a phrase known by many these days, is an act of having sexual relations
with someone that is not your significant other such as a friend or someone you
just met. The article, “Study Casts Skeptical Light on Campus ‘Hookup
Culture’,” presents the topic of hookup culture in college and whether hookups
are more popular than actually dating someone.
In
college, there is hardly enough time to find a potential boyfriend/girlfriend, especially
when there is tons of homework and studying to do. That might be an excuse for
some to hookup instead of taking the time to find a decent person to be in a
relationship with. Even though students are busy and making time to actually
get to know someone is not on their agendas; is hooking up better? It takes time away that could be going
towards studying, so the excuse is not valid. In the article, it states that
“fewer students are dating.” I agree with this because of the fact that college
is a challenge. Students who want to stay in college or keep their scholarships
must keep a high grade point average, and to achieve that they must study, be
hardworking, and determined. The need for a relationship comes last in their
priorities.
I do
not have any personal experience with hooking up and didn’t even know what it
meant. I don’t know anyone who has ever hooked up. Most of my friends are
academic high achievers and prefer to study that find someone to date or
“hookup” with in their free time. I am in a relationship—3 years to be
exact—and he is the only person I’ve been with.
In my
experience, hooking up isn’t very popular. I believe that college students
refrain from dating strictly because of the time it takes to be successful in
school.
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